Is Mainstreaming Obesity
Positive for Young People?
Why does everyone want the rose on the cake? For me it was all about eating pretty food. Would we eat cake without a rose? You bet, but there was something special about the rose.
It’s no secret we eat with our eyes as well, but don’t we risk being conned into eating something pretty that tastes awful? Is our standard for beauty changing and perhaps not in a good way? Is beauty subjective or is it foisted upon us by the mores of the times?
We are conditioned since childhood to choose pretty, to select the most appealing to the eyes, whether it is food, cars, clothes or people. Pretty is better and society always defined pretty for us. In the fifties it was clear Marilyn Monroe was the epitome of female beauty. So what’s an average girl to do? Isn’t beauty supposed to be in the eye of the beholder?
I suppose one could fight against convention and display an ardent ego boasting about one’s own attributes. I have always heard this works and that if you love yourself others will love you. That what you think about yourself is how others think of you. However that only works to a point.
Let’s face it and get real here…not every woman is born to be a supermodel. Nor is every man destined to be handsome. Yet, there is charm in being less than.
Supermodel Lauren Hutton has a huge gap between her two front teeth and yet was one of the most highly paid and sought after models of her time.
Yet the standard for beauty dictates one must rush to the dentist to fix every imperfection that would interfere with a perfect smile. Funny isn’t it that the defects of some make them more alluring and interesting than those traditionally considered perfect?
So what’s it all about Alfie?
In this new society we are being taught that looks and body size are no detriment to beauty and that women who are obese can be beautiful and desirable to men.
Oy, and I had to deal with Twiggy when I was young!
As someone who has battled the scale my entire life I would never advocate body shaming or making anyone feel bad about themself.
Yet I must say and I understand my words will be disputed and even perhaps believed offensive by some of my readers, I cannot advocate obesity nor find it an enhancement to any woman or man.
Mainstreaming an unhealthy body doesn’t seem the way to equalize the standard for beauty.
I understand the Rubenesque quality of women in the 1800s, but how are we to know how these womanly curves affected their health and lifespan?
Someone over one hundred pounds overweight is risking a lifetime of problems that can shorten and destroy the quality of their existence.
Once fat cells populate your body they never leave. It’s like trying to impose term limits on Congress, they will be there forever.
Who decided to tell young girls it’s okay to be one hundred pounds overweight and proudly wear spandex to show off every ounce of fat?
What happened to those Presidential fitness programs I used to scoff at that promoted good health?
Obesity is an issue that shouldn’t be advocated as inclusive.
Having a good body image is of course important for young people and old as well, but for those of us who were not born looking like Heidi Klum there is always Revlon and Spanx.
A truly beautiful woman is one that does the best to enhance her good features.
Make up, good hairstyles, flattering wardrobes can do wonders for every woman.
How many times have you seen someone walk into a room and thought, gee they are not really good looking but there’s something about him or her?
There is an enormous difference between being chubby and being obese. Mainstreaming bad health can in no way be a good thing for young people.
I’m glad there are clothes that can allow those overweight to dress attractively and modern. I remember as a child having to wear my mother’s clothes because nothing fit me. I couldn’t shop in the regular stores or find fun clothes so that is a very positive occurrence today.
And yes, we must all love ourselves, but we must also realize part of that love is inherent on doing the best for oneself.
Eating right, exercising or just moving, and focusing on inner beauty is always a positive way to proceed forward in life.
Stuffing one’s face with gigantic amounts of calories, fats and sweets without moderation can only lead to diabetes, heart issues, fatty liver and other diseases no one wants to add to their health charts.
Long ago the medical profession discovered the link between diet and mortality. Yet by mainstreaming obesity all caution has been tossed out the window.
I am absolutely not saying, and I want to make this clear, that it’s easy for some to be their optimum weight. It’s almost impossible actually. I cannot foresee a day when someone will ever say to me, you’re too thin. Although in my dreams I’ve heard that said, but only there. It’s not possible for me unless I stop eating altogether.
My metabolism is now a corpse and just hangs around my body rent-free because it has nowhere else to go. It stopped working in 2001 and I’ve been on my own here ever since.
Some are born with a predisposition to weight issues they must fight their entire life to keep under control. I well understand the fact that many days I am not willing to fight and watch my weight creep up despite the fact I’m just eating normally. So I have a great deal of compassion for those who suffer with this plight.
Yet, at the end of the day, there must come a point where I say, okay no more, it’s time to get the few pounds I gained off now before it gets out of control.
In the end, it is about control.
And that’s hard and no one should discount how difficult, especially as we age.
Yet giving young people a pass to be fat and unhealthy is a tragedy that has become far too acceptable in our society.
We need to make our kids understand that a healthy life is a precursor to living your dreams. Once they have started down the path to illness, it will be very difficult to reverse.
Being a few pounds overweight may be normal for many, obesity is not.
Society saying it is okay to add two hundred extra pounds to a frame only equipped to handle two hundred less is a prescription for a dangerous future.
I know some feel it is good that popular entertainers today brandish obesity as a positive lifestyle choice. I can’t imagine they feel good about all the young people they are influencing who will suffer greatly and may even die at the hands of this mantra.
Finding one’s own beauty and enhancing it is definitely a positive, copying the bad eating habits of an influencer who is courting health dangers is not.
The need for moderation needs to be made clear at some point. I am only hoping someone with influence will eventually show the courage to do just that.