We Must Tell Our Grandchildren
Embracing evil and negativity cannot lead to a positive outcome, but only weave a fabric of unhappiness. We as grandparents need to ensconce our grandchildren in a cloak of optimism and love woven from the memories of our childhoods.
We all really enjoy sharing happy times with one another, but in these turbulent times it seems imperative we leave a memoir behind with our grandchildren for safekeeping.
Words of those who seek to bring down America can’t provide the solutions we need at this moment to achieve that more “perfect union.” Our generation opened the door to freedom and justice and the next can finish what we began.
Now indeed answers are essential, but should be offered up on a platter of peaceful dissent and positive dialogue. Perhaps we can never be the same America, but we can be an improved one. Our grandchildren can build a more perfect union only by using past positives as a framework.
I believe this is an excellent time to be reminded that history is not always spread most effectively through books, but also by stories and memories handed down through generations. Tales told by parents and grandparents become an integral part of our values and color our lives.
Now more than ever I feel compelled to tell my grandsons about what it meant to grow up in 1950s and 60s post-war America.
With so much negative energy spewing about at this moment I’m horrified to think children are engulfed in an atmosphere of incivility and rage thereby believing this is the true measure of our nation.
Although so many young people today assume baby- boomer America can no longer exist as a feasible entity, I submit that without a clear understanding of the past, our grandchildren cannot imagine a blissful future. Is the vision of an America providing a peaceful, happy environment now a dinosaur or an impossible dream?
If you don’t understand history, you can’t relive the best of times or create new, improved ones.
Living in this moment when all that is spoken about this country is disparaging and critical, our real soul and DNA is being buried under a sea of resentment and despair.
I’m sad that our grandchildren are hearing appalling stories about who we are as a people when it’s simply not true. Incivility and injustice are a cancer, but one that can be cured.
I can only compare current times to a divorced couple where one parent assumes control and only espouses hateful and cruel things about the other. The children will eventually absorb only a dark portrait of a parent, who although flawed might also possess good qualities worth emulating. Perhaps a talent never unearthed under a barrage of angry ranting and hated. If those children had known about their inherited potential it may have enhanced their success and future happiness. Thus it is with America.
The accusations being shouted in no way reflect a country filled with good and charitable people who spend their lives working hard, caring for their families and neighbors, and feel fortunate to have been born or emigrated here.
Back when our grandparents or great grandparents came to this country the phrase one heard so often was “the streets of America are paved with gold.” Now they are paved with fury, exaggerations and too many seeking to harm this nation in irreparable ways.
Our grandchildren can only visualize and achieve a greater future if we inform them about the best of the past. To dispute the naysayers we can regale them with tales of a childhood filled with fun, laughter and innocence.
I’m well aware that innocence will be difficult to achieve with the Internet and non-stop television news constantly pointing out our faults and flaws, and yes, of course there are problems to fix. Yet far too many want to throw out the baby with the bathwater and ignore what is good. We have corrected our flaws before and can again. The information highway our grandchildren travel flows two ways and blame is not the vehicle to drive.
Am I being a bit idealistic in your eyes? Perhaps, but that is the result of growing up with access to idealism, something we are withholding from our children. How can one achieve greatness without witnessing and recognizing its true nature?
How can our grandchildren aspire without champions to emulate?
Can they believe all is achievable when only bombarded with allegations that America is no longer the land of opportunity?
Can they feel safe if we succumb to lawlessness and no longer possess respect or regard for authority or those who teach them?
This is not a political issue, but one of character and the ability to live one’s best life. This goal should be important to everyone no matter the politics, color or religion.
Growing up in Detroit I saw things from both sides. When young there was such a sense of safety and security fear was a stranger. Then came the new normal when crime became bigger than life, and trepidation was a constant companion.
I personally felt the impact when I lost a member of my family to street violence, so I know first hand the horror.
Negativity and condemnation won’t allow our children to build a kinder and gentler nation.
Nothing born in such fury can come to good and embracing hate is a recipe for disaster.
Of course out of chaos can come order, but who restores that order is now of major concern.
We lived in a positive and happy time despite discourse, why shouldn’t future generations?
Although our childhoods consisted of numerous negative events, we could learn, grow and move on. Today negativity has woven itself into the fabric of our reality and seems inescapable. I guess I’m calling for all of us who have been fortunate to rip away that cloth and reweave it with love and peace for our children and grandchildren.
When we leave our historical memories will be buried and never spoken again.
We cannot go gently into that good night and take all the good with us. Sharing our childhoods and swimming in the comfortable sea of nostalgia has been cathartic, but why stop with just us if these precious reminiscences inspire our loved ones to achieve wonderful lives?
Telling our stories to those little faces we love so dearly is the greatest inheritance we can pass on and one that will remain to always warm their hearts.
Caramel Make Me Happy Surprises
This easy treat will help cure those Pandemic Blues!
1 bag (approximately) of any flavor of Hershey’s kisses unwrapped
1 bag of Kraft caramels (you can make your own if you wish)
Melt caramels in the microwave or in a double boiler and pour caramel out on a sheet of parchment paper or a cookie sheet until slightly cooled and pliable. Cut the caramel into squares and place a kiss on each. Enfold the kiss inside the caramel and create a ball shape. Roll in chopped nuts or coconut and drizzle with melted white or dark chocolate.
3 thoughts on “We Must Tell Our Grandchildren”
Norma: You are so correct about the memoirs. At this point in our lives, we reflect, and think of what we are leaving to toe next generations. I, too, have started to create a memoir of sorts, so as to not let my past disappear with me. Also, your recipes are delicious! Stay healthy. Keep on writing….Love, Mary
Thanks, Mary, yes especially now it’s important to share our memories. I hope people read this and act on it. Today’s recipe is super easy and delicious. Enjoy and stay safe!!!
This is so true and so beautiful, your words are right on my friend. I have started a memory book with pictures, recipes and facts that i hope my kids will enjoy reading about some day…..Having just lost my mom a few weeks ago, I wish I had taken more time to do just that with her…..
Can’t wait to try this recipe! Your flare for writing is unparalleled, thanks for sharing!
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